It’s amazing. I learn a new thing about myself everyday. 🙂
I’ve never realised how open I am in a relationship. That is, I mean I wouldn’t mind my boyfriend talking friendly with some other girls in the office or his acquaintances. And I wouldn’t mind his hello or good-bye kisses on girls’ cheeks either (cheeks only, of course :-). In the end, kiss is something in our culture, isn’t it? It’s warm, nice and sincere.
On the other hand, I notice there are some other girls who do not like that, at all. When I say “at all”, I mean, she might go mad when she sees her boyfriend talking to somebody else (even that is a female colleague). And what did he do wrong? SMILE! Just a gentle smile, nothing else, no flirt, no wink, nothing but a smile. That’s enough for a storm to start. Right in the middle of the office. (Uffff…)
They work together, so a work lunch with other colleagues is prohibited unless she is invited and is in the mood to go too. No more outing/ drinking without her, ever, again!
Before the relationship, he was the fun guy. Now, what is he like? He can’t have a smile with another girl, not even a normal talk… Is that really what a girl wants to turn her boyfriend into?
What I don’t get is, if you are living with her and working with her, that is 24 / 7 you are attached with somebody without your own private space. And if you were the boyfriend, would you feel a bit stuffy?
You really come up with topics which are so common still we don’t pay much attention..
Actually what I feel is some people are too possessive and that makes them jealous. Human nature is hard to understand..
These women who go mad when they see their boyfriends/husbands smile and be friendly with other women, how do they behave around other men?
Yes, that’s ashamed, isn’t it?
Well, to anwer your question whatigotsofar, she’s not talking to other guys either. They live in their little – even tiny – sphere…
How sad (sigh\)